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 Do Nice Guys Really Finish Last ? Part 2 (What To Say ?)

I’m not sure how to tell you this but you screwed up! By staring or checking her out too long, you gave her the impression that you weren’t assertive and you lacked confidence.

How does she come to this conclusion? Other men have approached her within a few seconds of seeing her. Although, she may not like them she does love the attention.

I just gave you a key element in talking with women….they love attention. But they don’t want it from everyone. So, your initial approach should be simple and unique.

Depending on the situation and the women, I may say something like following that will lead into a conversation:
I like that outfit you’re wearing. The color goes well with your complexion and smile (you better be sincere).

Are you always rushing? When do you make time to relax?
That hairstyle really looks good on you. You should keep your hair like that!Very simple wasn’t it. Nothing fancy. And that’s the problem with most shy, nice and good guys…we make things too hard when it shouldn’t be.

How To Keep The Conversation Interesting

Never, ever talk about yourself unless the woman asks you a question. It’s a big turn-off and you will come across as being self-centered. Your goal is to keep the conversation flowing.
They way you do that is by understanding what women want. Think about this…if you worked all day (week), didn’t have time for yourself, had to take care of the children and house, how would you feel? Tired right?

Therefore, when a woman goes out she’s looking to have “fun.” She wants to escape from the real world for a little while. The way you help her is by talking about anything except sex, work and yourself.
Here’s the one line I’ve used that never failed me. And I do mean never! “You look so happy and relaxed. You must have recently come back from an exotic vacation.”

That question always got women to talk about them, their life, where they would love to go, and so on.

While she’s talking you must pay attention because she will give you the next topic to talk about without even knowing it. And this could continue all night kid disney She will defnitely enjoy your company because you will be talking about the things that interest her (it would also help if they interest you as well). See how simple that was?

One more thing. Since women are out to have a nice time they don’t want to be bothered with a man who has an attitude and is always attempting to get in their pants.